Are you an orkut addict?

Yes I am!

Orkut is a happening thing in today’s E-World.Life was never so exciting while surfing as it is now, for me at least.Its a great fun searching for your old friends and coming across each other through orkut platform.Just imagine of interacting with those friends with whom you studied in primary classes and u meet them after so many years.Its sheer old memories which brought you together.And credit goes to orkut to make you meet.

Orkut got its name after its creator Orkut Buyukkokten. Its a social network service run by google and is the 8th most visited site in world. Point to be noted is that we Indians are at third number in its followers list, Brazilians being the first one followed by Americans.

Besides social networking there are communities also which can be joined by individuals according to their choices. You can share your views, interact and make friends.Enhancement of social networking can be easily done through orkut.Friends are forever and everybody wants t be in touch with their always.So why not take the benefit of orkut and call your old pal.

Are you a happy Homemaker?

Dictionary defines a Homemaker as a person  who manages a household, especially as one’s main daily activity.Fairer sex is mostly absorbed in this activity after their marriage.Changing times has effected this activity a lot and this has resulted to the decrease of respect given to this job, leading to dissatisfaction and depression in the homemakers.It is not good for the whole family of the homemaker as her dissatisfaction is observed in her work quality for her family.

When everybody is enjoying their work, why we , the homemakers are loosing interest in our job.We have started considering as thankless job.I have observed this feeling among many homemakers.Just arranging the house properly,and looking after the kid is no more satisfying for the woman of 21st century.Today’s kids also dream of a smart mom who is happily doing all chores of house plus doing some job also.They don’t like a fussy mom who is always worried about the food habits of her child.

Get awaken dear homemakers.Time has changed.So the concept of your work also.Don’t just be a homemaker only. Carry your job in a new way.First of all start taking out time just for you.Get to know yourself properly.what are your choices, what are your hobbies, what food you like to eat.In total bring a positive change i n your persona.Then try to avoid that company which always have bad discussions.Have people with positive energy around you.Good company will help you in  overcoming your depression.Try to go through the newspaper daily.You will be updated of the happenings around you.Cultivate a hobby, which you can pursue when you are free.Get in touch of your old friends.Believe in spirituality.Try to be innovative in your kitchen.Try new recipies for your family.They will definitely like it.

There are numerous ways by which you can make you homemaking job an interesting job.So try these tips and bring a positive change in your life.Best wishes.

Marriage is about babies or bonding

There was an article in today’s leading newspaper about new outlook of young couples towards marriage. It says today’s generation believe that marriage is necessary for them for relationship and not for having babies.How true is the concept.I have been married for 3and a half years and my concept has really changed.I mean how fantastic can be a relationship if both persons involved in the relationship care about each other in all ways.By all ways I mean caring about each other’s happiness, dreams, and sorrows.In today’s times both genders are getting equal opportunities and so the fairer sex takes the liberty of following her carrier even after her marriage.How lucky she will be if her partner cares about her by knowing her what really she is.Yesteryears husbands were more worried about their family, about having babies,and about their own growth. Its not their fault.They just followed their paternal steps.But today’s guys knows well how to handle his companion.They are never shy of sharing the household chores with their better halfs.They are well aware that a happy family can only exist if happiness of all the family members is taken care of.If the trend follows then the day is not far when the question of equalty between man and woman will be history.

Man and Woman

What woman wants from man and what man wants from woman, has always been a debatable topic.An article in a pull out of a leading newspaper points out that man only looks for pleasure from woman, so its better she takes care about her looks.Isn’t it disgusting?What about her feelings, her choices, her habits, her love and above all her thinking?What I think then there will be no difference between a man and an animal.The power of thinking makes us different from the animal group.Until and unless there is a mutual respect between both man and woman, no relationship can be a success story.And this respect can’t be just for looks.It has to be for some inmate beauty.That can be her feelings, her feminism, her personality or might be simply her persona.Any relationship wants that respect from the other side.This feeling just bores me that my guy is just interested in me because of my looks.Then i have to always worry about my beauty.And for how long that interest will be there.Once I start looking old then what?